I want to share my own personal experience of "cleaning and clearing my house." When I speak of "my house", I refer to me and all that I hold safe and precious (people, places AND things) to me. There were a few people whom I had accepted into my life and because I've known them for quite a period of time, I referred to them as "family." I knew full well that those individuals weren't worthy to be in my family not because I or anyone else in my circle is better than everyone else; no, those certain individuals were toxic to me and would then infect my home, hence my very essence.
So what I did especially when I knew certain individuals couldn't be reasoned with or I would never get a word in edgewise and I ultimately knew this was the end of our friendship, I wrote such individuals a tactful yet assertive letter so that they knew exactly how I felt, I said a prayer and then I cut my ethereal ties with them. I also kept a journal of how I felt after releasing such individuals - so that I could be reminded of such lessons and so I wouldn't repeat my mistakes. All in all, the feeling I got after releasing them to the Universe was a huge weight lifted off my chest. No greater feeling than relief. Since then, it has been easier for me to set boundaries with ALL of my loved ones and as I grew respectful of myself, I grew respectful and more loving to the people I already had in my life; while welcoming new and refreshing people and energies!
For those others that I knew still had a fighting chance to be in my life and were worthy of second chances, I prayed to God and Archangel Gabriel to "please help me tactfully speak to [insert name] by allowing the exact right words to flow naturally and easily through me." Then, I spoke or texted with one family member and another then another as needed to practice this skill until eventually, I overcame my fear of speaking face-to-face with my loved ones. I was always felt scared to speak to my loved ones because I always felt that I never said the right things and it would always seem to end up into some kind of confrontation, which I clearly DID NOT want. It did not happen over night - tactful speaking and/or writing happens with practice, common sense and lots of empathy.
Anyway, this is what I wanted to share with you in hopes of helping you. Also, stay tuned for big announcements here at The Healing Diva.
So what I did especially when I knew certain individuals couldn't be reasoned with or I would never get a word in edgewise and I ultimately knew this was the end of our friendship, I wrote such individuals a tactful yet assertive letter so that they knew exactly how I felt, I said a prayer and then I cut my ethereal ties with them. I also kept a journal of how I felt after releasing such individuals - so that I could be reminded of such lessons and so I wouldn't repeat my mistakes. All in all, the feeling I got after releasing them to the Universe was a huge weight lifted off my chest. No greater feeling than relief. Since then, it has been easier for me to set boundaries with ALL of my loved ones and as I grew respectful of myself, I grew respectful and more loving to the people I already had in my life; while welcoming new and refreshing people and energies!
For those others that I knew still had a fighting chance to be in my life and were worthy of second chances, I prayed to God and Archangel Gabriel to "please help me tactfully speak to [insert name] by allowing the exact right words to flow naturally and easily through me." Then, I spoke or texted with one family member and another then another as needed to practice this skill until eventually, I overcame my fear of speaking face-to-face with my loved ones. I was always felt scared to speak to my loved ones because I always felt that I never said the right things and it would always seem to end up into some kind of confrontation, which I clearly DID NOT want. It did not happen over night - tactful speaking and/or writing happens with practice, common sense and lots of empathy.
Anyway, this is what I wanted to share with you in hopes of helping you. Also, stay tuned for big announcements here at The Healing Diva.
From Archangel Michael: "Shield yourself - along with positive changes come the negative attitudes, stay on your path. There will always be people who don't understand your journey nor do you understand theirs, no worries, focus on you. How you react to others determines how you use your power. If you allow others to anger, annoy or irritate you, then you give others the power over you. When you CHOOSE to walk away and smile about a certain situation, you maintain control over your powers and that's part of the change occurring in your life right now - reacting to how others treat you. Speak as needed without yelling; remaining calm will throw off the other person and "the ball stays in your court." Here is the prayer for the next 7 days for you and whenever needed:
"Archangel Michael, I ask you to protect me, my loved ones, my vehicle, and my home with your powerful shield. Surround us in your purple light, which allows only pure love to penetrate. Please stay with me day and night, and keep my loves safe [(OPTIONAL) name specific people or situations]."
"Archangel Michael, I ask you to protect me, my loved ones, my vehicle, and my home with your powerful shield. Surround us in your purple light, which allows only pure love to penetrate. Please stay with me day and night, and keep my loves safe [(OPTIONAL) name specific people or situations]."
Five of Fire comes from the Angel Tarot Card deck and here's the message from the Angels: "5 is the number for change and fire is the symbol for the element of change. You no longer wish to remain quiet or stationery, you welcome change with open arms and we are helping you do so. 2015 is the year of imminent change. We also asked that you stay focused on your path, if you feel distracted, call on God to send us to be by your side to help you get back on track. Keep going, you are doing an awesome job!"
Until next time, I bid you all love, light and compassion. God Bless you all.
~Maria
Until next time, I bid you all love, light and compassion. God Bless you all.
~Maria
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