It fizzled just as it sizzled...So this past weekend, I went to the central valley to visit a friend; actually he was someone I reconnected with on Facebook and I figured in order to get back on the dating scene, I need to make the effort and give him a chance. Good thing, I visited him, I learned A LOT about me that I never knew and the love I am still capable of giving. When I mean the love I am still capable of giving, I am referring to self-love. Every instinct of mine, told me to RUN! I stayed to give it a try, to be open for love’s sake. Without giving too much detail of my date weekend and without putting down or judging the other person, it boiled down to this—we were not compatible. By the way, I am quite proud of myself for refraining from judgment. I kept telling myself: “I can only change myself and there might be other women out there that have a preference for this kind of guy.” So I did the best thing for us both, I decided put an end to our courtship—I dropped him a quick note thanking him for the weekend and letting him know exactly how I felt. I gave it my best and that’s all I could really do. Now, my energy feels lighter.
I also realized how much stronger I am in my convictions and beliefs—anyone or anything that is not aligned with my core beliefs, well, they have to go. I only have room for loving and compassionate people in my life—I call the shots in my life and life is too short to be anything but happy and loved. Till next time, I bid you all love, light and compassion. Be happy NOW.
~Maria
I also realized how much stronger I am in my convictions and beliefs—anyone or anything that is not aligned with my core beliefs, well, they have to go. I only have room for loving and compassionate people in my life—I call the shots in my life and life is too short to be anything but happy and loved. Till next time, I bid you all love, light and compassion. Be happy NOW.
~Maria
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