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6/26/2013

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Please read through this article and then comment on my FB page with a title.  The title must be different from all of my previous blog entries.  Winners get a choice of a 20-minute distance healing or a 1-question e-mail reading.  Blessed Be and may spirit guide You to the right title.

I have embarked on a new journey in my life.  Since my spirit/soul is “toned” and well-maintained, it is now time to work on my physique so it could match my soul.  Also, I’ve been blessed with a clean bill of health on my last physical and I’d like to keep it that way.  After all, Your body is Your temple and it should be treated with love and respect.  I find myself having to start over again with my ego in “full-bloom” being my own “Debbie Downer” berating me that I can’t do it when in fact, in my heart (which I completely trust) tells me that I can and that I should look at my ego thru the eyes of love and compassion.  It’s a struggle, a fight of my will and ego, but as the saying goes—where there’s a will there’s a way!  My will/higher self wins in the end; it encourages me to persevere and be patient with my ego and my body.  I’m changing everything about my health.  I’ve quit smoking or at least I’ve cut down my smoke in-take to 1-2 cigarettes a day (I used to smoke 1.5 packs a day); and I’m learning to choose healthier foods, fruits and veggies to satisfy my appetite.  I know it’s going to take a lot of work, but I made a choice to LIVE, so I’ll do all I can. 

It’s funny because while I’m working out at the gym, I hear my ego bitching and complaining on how slow I’m going, how I’ll never get the body I want and reminding me “no pain, no gain!”  I just roll my eyes and continue to breathe slowly while working out—after all, that’s all I can do and I get back in focus.  I want to share with You guys my ritual(s) during moments such as these or when I “fall off the wagon” or in times of trouble and I’m in need of help:
1.    Focus.  So what if someone is getting on Your nerves?  My question to You is:  Why are You letting them get on Your nerves?  Keep Your mind occupied on something else at work; focus that energy into creativity—that’s Your way of helping out the environment.  You are one less person spreading negativity/anger.  Do something productive, find a focal point, Your happy place and ignore them.  Remember, You can’t change anyone but You sure as hell can change Yourself. 

2.    Perception.  Sometimes shifting Your perception a little to the left will bring You back in balance.  Look through the eyes of love and compassion; remember that WE are all mirrors of each other.  We see in others what we like and dislike about ourselves; we attract like-minded individuals and we are repelled by others because we dislike their actions.  When we see something in someone else or in our environment we don’t like, that is our sign from God/Spirit, to change that part of us that we don’t like. 

3.    Ask for Help when You need it.  If all of the above fails, this is the last step, You have done all You could in Your power now, it’s time to LET GO AND LET GOD.  Not to say God and/or the Angels weren’t with You during the above steps.  Be gentle with Yourself and remember that You are only human and therefore You are not perfect; so it is ok to feel irritated, angry and negative but please don’t let the negative feelings linger—LET THEM GO.  When you ask God for help, it need not be formal—“God, please help with me [situation/person]” works ALL THE TIME.  Your prayers are answered immediately and which You mistake as coincidence.  THERE ARE NO COINCIDENCES – That is God’s answer to Your Prayers.  Note:  Forgiving someone and letting something go doesn’t mean it’s ok what they did to You, no—You are just not willing to carry their energy/extra baggage around. 

I hope this helps.  Now You know my secret.  ;o)  Also, I’m open to suggestions to add and/or change up my ritual—I’d like to hear about your practices.  Till next time, I bid You all love, light and compassion.

~Maria

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Summertime

6/21/2013

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Yay!!!!  My favorite season of the year is here!!!  WOO HOO!!!  YIPPEE!!!  Summer is that time of the year of my renewal/rejuvenation.  Plenty of sunshine, release and love. 

Message from Spirit:  "Let go and Let God, Child.  Laugh at Yourself as much as you can; Love Yourself unconditionally; and Live Your Life.  Focus on Self-improvement which is Your piece/peace of the puzzle/bigger picture.  Be the Solution--focus on what you can do to improve your life hence improving life around you.  Harmony and happiness in your life is contagious--You will inspire others to live by Your example."

Summer love is the best.  It could mean a new love in Your life or it could mean working on your love relationship with yourself.  Either way, this summer belongs to US.  Till next time, I bid you all love, light and compassion.  Enjoy your weekend!

~Maria
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Daddy's Day

6/14/2013

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For my Daddy and All Dads EVERYWHERE (in this Lifetime as well as the Afterlife) - HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!! 

I’ve been blessed to have my dad; my Ama as well as my uncles from both my mom and dad’s side who helped raise me.  “It takes a village to raise a child”- a recurring theme in mine and my son’s life.  For that WE’RE wealthy.  We are abundant and want for nothing.  Below are a few pictures of our "tribal men."  LOL!!!    

Dad – I love you for who you are and I am truly blessed to have you in my life, My King.  I’ve never seen you cry or hurt, until I saw it on your eyes on that day long, long ago when I was 15 years old—we won’t get into details of that day in fear that I’ll hurt you all over again.  You have stood by me when no one else in our family (tribe) believed in me.  You believed in me and you taught me lessons that I will forever hold near and dear in my heart.  It is only here will I admit “yes, Daddy, You were right.” 

Now that you and mommy are getting “up there” – ako na ang bahalang mag-alaga sa inyo.  Gagawan natin ng paraan—we always do, di ba?  You always tell me “relax ka lang, magagawan natin ng paraan ‘yan – Basta, tandaan mo—lahat ng bagay may paraan.”  Your words always put me at ease.  When mom and I had our differences, you were our psychologist, referee, mediator, etc.  You knew what to say to us to resolve any issues/differences between us.  You are the strongest man I know and I know you are very proud of me and Jonathan.

Daddy – Mahal na mahal kita.  Maligayang Kaarawan ng Mga Tatay sa inyo!  HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!  

Love,
Your Daughter, Maritess aka The Healing Diva

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Sandy & Paul

6/6/2013

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My inspiration for this week is my surrogate sister and brother-in-law.  They are amongst My Loves whom I look up to in the relationship department.  Meaning if and when I do settle down again, I hope it is one of everlasting love similar to theirs.  So many relationships nowadays end on the stupidest note; over small shit, but then again who am I to talk?  After all, I don’t know what happens behind closed doors.  What happened to true partnership?  It seems that the Millennium couple has stopped trying; like it’s become a power struggle.  Arguing over money; like everything is in comparison to pulling teeth—(i.e. “he’s or she’s lazy, he or she doesn’t take out the garbage; or when is he or she going to get a job?), when in reality—YOU GUYS SIGNED UP TO BE TOGETHER FOR BETTER OR WORSE.  I know, I know those who know me knew I got married and divorced by the time I was 18—which is why I haven’t been re-married because I was not ready to commit.  NOW, I’m ready to commit and when I see Sandy and Paul—I’m given hope for my future/our future.  I guess what I find disappointing in this day and age is the lack of commitment by many or fear thereof.  I’m not worried, my King will arrive in due time.  I really feel that is the biggest test of all from God—that we should look beyond the negativity and find hope and still commit somehow no matter how bad things look. 

Look I might sound like I’m rambling on like a mad woman—but if you really, truly think about it, you know deep down I make plenty of sense.  Anyway, going back to Sandy and Paul—I saw the true test of their love and commitment when Sandy’s mom, Maria passed away two weeks ago.  Sandy and Paul stood as the rocks needed to keep Tony (Maria’s widower) together.  They kept it together for the kids’ sakes and fell apart in my arms.  I love them both and even though it’s been 3 months since their wedding anniversary—I continue to pray for them for continued love, blessings and most of all compassion to and for each other.  They’re wonderful with each other and they’re great parents.  I was happy to find out that Tony agreed to have them move in so they could take care of him.  The kids will be around as well to keep Tony busy.  I know Maria would be very proud of them.    

Sandy & Paul – the road ahead looks a mess, but together you guys will make it enjoyable for all of us.  I love you and I hope only the best and continued success in your partnership.  I don’t know if I say it enough so here it is, I appreciate you guys so much and I’m blessed to have you in my life. 

Till next time, I bid you all love, light and compassion.

~Maria

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